Friday Night in Haarlem

Frank's brother in-law, sister in-law and their son (in pic below) came for dinner.

Frank made this very tasty pasta with spicey sausage, mushrooms and peapods. The sausage was unbelievable.

I made the salad dressing.

His friends were very nice. They asked many questions about America and Americans in general. They were interested in how "average" Americans live - what life is like. I think it's the first time Europeans actually asked me about life in America. The topic of conversation is usually about American politics, the election and the bank industry crisis (which we talked about, too). Or how too many Americans are apathetic towards American politics and American foreign policy. Which, is fine, because I share the same criticisms and concerns.

I found their interest, I dunno what's the right word? Refreshing, maybe? Or flattering. Or maybe sincere because they didn't have preconceived notions, like many Europeans. I find it amusing and almost hypocritical when Europeans think they really know Americans, but have never visited! They have stereotypes of us, like we have stereotypes of them.

While I understand, it's easy to be critical of the US because we've been a superpower and culturally influential-- which could be seen as positive or negative -- it's always easy to pick on the guy on top. Considering our status (or previous status) in the world, we're expected to be more concerned about our political system, economy and foreign policy, because it effects the rest of the world.


pic of Frank and his nephew making homemade pasta